Kemarin, setelah membuka-buka postingan di suatu milis wanita, saya tertarik dengan satu penawaran dari seorang teman member sesama milis yang menwarkan Anti Wrikle Cream (krim anti kerut) dari satu merk paling terkenal yang harganya di diskon sampai 30% dari harga resmi di counter. Saya pikir gila juga yaa, meski judulnya udah di diskon 30%, tapi teuteup harganya mencapai 1,1 juta..!!! Meskipun saya selalu ingin lebih cantik dan menarik tetapi membuang uang hanya untuk mencegah kerutan di wajah, rasanya kok gak masuk akal banget ya
aa..?? Buat saya pribadi, menjadi tua itu takdir, tapi usia juga cuma angka so... gak usah terlalu panik melihat garis-garis tipis mulai menghias wajah dan sudut mata kita. That's natural. kenapa saya berbicara seperti itu? karena saya sendiri sudah lebih dari 3 dekade hidup di bumi ini dan bersyukur juga meskipun udah cukup umur tapi garis-garis tipis yang jadi musuh para kaum hawa belum nampak di wajah saya. Nah..bersyukur banget kan...jadi saya gak perlu spending money for buying those kind of stuff...hehehe...
Buat saya pribadi menjadi tua itu takdir (in matter a fact, kita gak bisa melawan waktu..) tapi selama kita tetap ngerasa muda dan gak kehilangan semangat untuk membuat hidup kita berarti (buat diri kita dan buat orang lain juga..), rasanya kita gak bakal secepat itu keliatan dewasa (baca= tua). Di atas semua itu, saya pikir kalo kita bisa banyak bersyukur, tanda-tanda penuaan dini juga gak bakal datang lebih awal. Ini penting loh...karena tanpa bersyukur, kita juga gak bisa dapat peaceful on our mind, kedamaian di dalam pikiran kita. Yaah..bayangin aja, kalo kita masih suka panas ati kalo ngeliat teman, tetangga atau teman kerja yang bisa beli ini itu atau berbelanja ini itu...please deh..ngapain juga kita menyimpan rasa seperti itu??? bersyukur aja hari ini kita masih diberi kesempatan untuk hidup di dunia ini, masih di beri kesehatan, masih bisa kerja dan cari uang, masih diberi kesempatan untuk bertemu keluarga kita. Bukannya itu sangat berarti??? Dan untuk mempermudah mendapatkan rasa bersyukur seperti itu, kenapa kita nggak mencoba melihat keadaaan di sekitar kita? Banyak lho orang-orang yang kurang beruntung di dalam hidupnya tapi mereka masih bisa tersenyum menghadapi hidup yang keras ini.Jadi, kenapa kita nggak mulai bersyukur atau menambah rasa syukur di dalam hati kita...???? Percaya deh, kalo kita banyak bersyukur, tanda-tanda penuaan dini juga nggak bakal cepat-cepat mampir kok..jadi nggak perlu cepat-cepat beli Anti Wrikle Cream kan?
By Mark Williams
Positive affirmations are powerful tools to help you manifest what you desire into your life. This is not a new concept but now that science has documented a new energy field, simply called The Field, that they say is the primary component of all things, positive affirmations have new and powerful meanings.
Everything that exists is made up of energy in the form of radiating wavelengths. The denser the form, a rock for example, the lower the energy levels, at the other end of the spectrum there exists things that have high levels of energy. These high energy level forms are things like light, colors, and thoughts.
Yes, thoughts!
You see, the things we think about are sent from us as energy and permeate the things and people around us. Everything starts as a thought! Ford motor company started as a thought in the head of Henry Ford, it was his idea of bringing the automobile to the masses that created the Ford Empire we know today. The skyscrapers that line our beautiful cities, at one time, were thoughts in an architect’s mind.
In order to understand the power of positive affirmations we need to better understand the power of our thoughts. The things we think about continuously will materialize in time. Therefore, it is important to always think positive thoughts. When you spend your time thinking about what you lack in life, all you will ever have is lacking. In order to acquire all that you wish for you must focus on it with laser accuracy and put a plan in place to achieve it. Affirmations give us this focus and keep us going in the right direction.
Thoughts, when focused on and combined with passion, in time, are manifested into reality. That is the power of positive affirmation, it is the repeated reading of a statement or thought that gets into the sub-conscious mind and radiates from us to attract the necessary means to bring forth that thought into reality.
It is the absolute knowing, with the absence of doubt, that you will acquire what it is you desire. It doesn’t matter if it is a material possession, love, or spirituality; we become the things that we think about. Unfortunately, if all we focus on is negative things or wishes all we will ever have is negativity and mere wishes.
By using positive affirmations and repeating our desires and goals daily in our thoughts we begin to manifest them into reality. Suddenly, changes begin to happen in our lives that begin to bring forth our desires. If we want more financial freedom and use affirmations aimed at acquiring more wealth then, almost miraculously, we get the promotion we wanted or our business takes a turn for the better providing the added income we desire.
This must be done in the sense that what it is you desire has already manifested itself. Do not use an affirmation that is stated as a want or desire. A good example in the case of financial freedom would be:
Wealth flows into my life like the water of the streams and rivers to the oceans. I have plenty of income to meet my needs, with lots left over to help my fellow man.
You notice that there is no asking for wealth or money it is stated as if you already have it. By sending this message out into the universal intelligence, the field, it will attract like energies and manifest itself into reality. Things that we perceive as miracles are the fruition of thoughts that have manifested themselves into reality. That is the power of prayer and meditation, God gives us what we ask for, good or bad!
Use this simple guide to let the power of positive affirmations help you in your life.
1. Write down on paper what it is you desire. It is best to keep this personal, sharing it with others only allows negativity into your mind. Society, family, and friends like to tell us that things can’t be done. They mean well but you do not want to let those thoughts enter your mind. Memorize the affirmation and remember to keep it in the sense that you already have what it is you desire.
2. In the morning when you have time to yourself repeat the affirmation 20 times. Make sure that it is stated with emotion and passion, not just stated out loud. Envision yourself with your desire and how you will be once it becomes reality. Repeat the process before you go to bed at night.
3. Any time you feel yourself doubting your desire or any negative thoughts enter your mind, clear your mind and repeat your positive affirmation. Do not let negative thoughts or setbacks deter your focus from achieving your desire.
4. Lastly, stay focused and be receptive to opportunities when they present themselves. The path to your desires may not come in the form that you envision! So pay attention and be alert to opportunity.
I hope this article has helped you see the potential in yourself and the power you have when you use positive affirmations. I promise, that if you will use these simple steps as outlined above you will see great changes in your life. It is important to understand that what we think about becomes our realities in life, so be careful what you think about.
Good Luck on your Journey!
Setelah berasa dapat durian runtuh karena permohonan gw untuk mendaftar di Google AdSense di approved hari ini, ada hal lain yang bikin gw merasa super duper happy. Hari ini gw dapat 75.000....!!! Mungkin pada heran kenapa hanya dapat 75.000 tapi bisa happy kayak gitu? Jawabannya, karena meski baru sehari, tapi usaha gw udah keliatan hasilnya. Apakah itu????
Gini, kemarin gw iseng2 googling dan dapat info ada bisnis baru di internet. beneran baru karena baru re-launching tgl 26 januari 2009. Waktu itu gw liat di http://www.komisiekstra.com. Setelah liat websitenya,reaksi gw sih biasa-biasa aja. Tapi karena ngeliat baru beberapa orang yang jadi member, ya sudah lah, iseng aja ngedaftar dan gw dapat ID nuber nya 99...!!! Weeisssh...pikir-pikir,'9' kan angka fave gw dan gak tau gimana tiba-tiba dapat 'feel' buat ikutan dan langsung transfer duitnya kemarin sore sekitar jam 6 an. Eeh, tadi pagi, ada e-mail dari admin website diatas, katanya gw dah dapat downline... Waaah...cepaaat banget....!!! I wasn't expected that I would get any downline sooner coz I thought it would take some times.. But, it's really beyond my expectation...!!
Jadilah..hari ini gw dapat 75.000 dalam jangka waktu kurang dari 24 jam..!! It's awesome and gw bakal tambah giat promosikan web replika gw...hehehe..
Mau merubah nasib anda dan mendapat peruntungan seperti gw...?? Coba deh klik disini http://www.KomisiEkstra.com/?ref=99
GooD LucK..
My Google AdSense application has been approved...!!!
Setelah beberapa hari berharap-harap cemas, akhirnya...diapproved juga. Seneng banget sih. Maklum, dari beberapa sumber yang bisa dipercaya, mendaftar di Google AdSense, gak mudah. Malah kebanyakan ditolak. Meski tampilan website kita keren abis, tapi kalo content nya dianggap gak sesuai ama Google AdSense, yaaah...jangan harap deh diapproved. kalo ngeliat blog gw ini, jauuuh dari keren malah kesannya penuh sesak udah gitu dan berhubung baru bikin, jadi postingannya juga belum banyak. Jadi, pantas donk kalo gw ngerasa gimanaaa gituh..hehehe...
Pokoknya...hepiiiii banget....horeee...!!!!
Menunggu emang gak pernah mudah dan benar-benar pekerjaan yang menjemukan. Apalagi kalo menunggu sesuatu yang memang kita inginkan. rasanya gw udah gak sabar nungguin timing yang pas buat jalan-jalan ke SG laghee.. Cuma sekarang tujuannya udah terarah dan jelas...(hehehe..apa cobaaa...???) Maksudnya sih, ini bakal jadi perjalanan yang penuuuh dengan perencanaan. Mulai dari budgeting sampai apa yang bakal di lakuin disana. Kalo masalah budgeting, harap maklum deh yeee, sekarang apa-apa mahal, apalagi yang namanya tiket pesawat ama hotel, bakal menguras dompet deh..and the thing is I wont dream abt staying @ Sheraton Tower again as I used to do..(karena Muahaaaal bangeet ...bisa gak makan neh,kalo gw nekat pilih hotel ini...). Apalagi nanti pas waktu Great Singapore Sale...walaaah...walaaah...yang ada bisa nyampe di SG tapi gigit jari karena gak bisa makan and ...belanja...hehehehe..
Oh ya, my hidden agenda sebenarnya pengen ke VivoCity karena gosipnya disana ada butik Esprit terbesar dan ada ....Marche...Setiap kali ke Marche,Wuiiih..kebayang deh tuh grilled chicken sausages dengan kejunya yang meleleh dan bikin orang lupa diri...hehehehe.. Juga suasana tempatnya yang nyaman. Waktu masih di Suntec City aja, meski ada di tengah-tengah perkantoran tapi suasananya homie banget. Apalagi sekarang, di Harbourfront, pasti suasananya lebih OK...
Aduuuh...lama banget bulan Juni nya....
Soul Mates...Or Not?
By Dorothy Thompson
Defining the soul mate relationship as opposed to any other kind of relationship is not so hard once you understand what soul mates are all about. So few people really know how to go about doing this, but it’s not as difficult as it seems.
I had a client not too long ago tell me that she had been with a man for a long time and that she was positive she was totally in love with him—and not lust love—and that she didn’t know how to tell if he was her soul mate and if he felt the same. She wanted to know how she could tell, which is one of the more common questions I hear.
“I’m in love, but is it the real thing?”
The real thing. Just what is the real thing and how can you tell?
First of all, if you are in love with someone, he/she is your soul mate, but just as there are varying degrees of love, there are varying kinds of soul mates. It sounded to me like in this woman’s case, it was the companion soul mate to whom she was referring.
All companion soul mates, unless they choose not to for various reasons, involve intimacy on different levels. The other two kinds of soul mates—karmic soul mates and twin souls—rarely involve sexual relations. Hard to believe, but it’s true.
As with all companion soul mates, these people come into your life for a particular reason. Is it for marriage? Is it to produce 
offspring?
Only you can determine that as the relationship gets further along, but one thing is for sure: he or she is meant to be a part of your life. No two soul mates come together without a purpose. That is how you can differentiate acquaintances you meet in your daily life from people with whom you share a soul mate bond.
If you are in love, you are in love. You feel it, it makes you happy and fulfilled and you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. A natural thing to happen to two people who are soul mates.
However, if further down the road, the two soul mates should part because of differences, that soul mate was still meant to come into your life.
When two people come together as soul mates, there is a purpose for them to do so; but when that purpose has been realized as well as finalized, the two may part but that is not because they weren’t meant to be a part of each other’s lives.
It is because their mission together on earth has been accomplished.
When this happens, the two begin to feel as if they are drifting apart and they have no idea what is going on. Their inner self is trying to tell them that there are other soul mates out there that they need in their life in order to be complete.
Yes, it may be sad for one or even both partners, but this is the nature of things, especially if you are just starting out in life.
You need to go through necessary steps in order to be complete and it may take one, or it may take several, soul mates to help you with this, but every last one of them that come into your life are important, and necessary.
My advice is to: live, love, learn. Live to your highest expectations, love like there is no tomorrow and learn what each soul mate that enters into your life is meant to teach you about life, about yourself, and about why the two of you were brought together in the first place.
Once we learn to do this, we are that much closer to finding our higher self and on the road toward a productive and happy life.
Use the power of communication for you!
by Jennifer Good
Ask a couple what's the one thing they'd like to improve in their relationship and more often than not their answer will be communication. It seems the thing we take most for granted, our speech, is the one thing that has the power to build or destroy a relationship. If you find communication is an area you'd like to improve in your relationship, take a few moments and read over the following tips and ideas for a better relationship thr
ough communication.
2. Communication is a power - use it!
If you have a tool that will make you the wealthest person in the world, not using it would seem to be the most absurd thing possible. The same applies to communication. By taking the time to let the person in your life know how you feel and how much you love and cherish them, you'll be taking your relationship to a new level. Both sexes love to hear how wonderful they are, and how much they are appreciated. If you're not taking the time out to tell your partner these things, then you're wasting the best tool for your relationship that you have.
3. Unspoken communication.
Have you ever watched a movie where the most powerful and moving scene was the one where no one spoke at all? Let this work for you the next time you want to truly convey your love. Spend some time everyday just looking at each other, not speaking at all. Use your other senses to express what you're trying to communicate. You might just be surprised at how much you enjoy this time together.
4. Communicating without realizing it!
Sometimes I find the moments that ended up being the most important and special to me happened when I wasn't even aware of it at the time. Create these moments for yourselves by keeping engaged in activity. Don't just sit in front of the TV and watch show after show. Play board games, listen to music, give each other back rubs, talk about your dreams, play on the computer together, go for a walk, paint a room, wrestle... your options are endless. If you haven't guessed, the point is to do something that is fun for both of you! You'll find that the more time you spend together in activites, the less time or desire you'll have for communication problems.
Mungkin ini 'sisi gak enaknya' menjadi wanita, hampir-hampir semua mengalami PMS dari level yang paling ringan (uring-uringan ato moody) sampai level berat (seperti sakit kepala yang bikin bete,perasaan kayak ngidam sama makanan tertentu, susah tidur, badanpada pegel-pegel sampai perut yang berasa muleeees banget)... **Sigh** Sumpaaah..ini bukan hal yang mudah dilalui begitu saja. Tapi susah juga mau ngilanginnya.
Dari googling dari beberapa sumber,ternyata hampir 80% wanita mengalami gejala PMS..(wuuiih...Thanks GOD..ternyata diluar sana banyak 'teman sependeritaan" yaaa..hehehe..) .
Sebenarnya penyebab PMS apa sih? Dari beberapa sumber menyebutkan bahwa perubahan hormon yang berpengaruh besar dalam terjadinya PMS. Istilahnya sih changing hormone level dan kondisi ini diperparah dengan hadirnya stress danproblem-problem emosional lainnya.Kemudian, kira-kira gimana sih menanggulangi PMS? Ada beberapa saran sih, diantaranya :
1. Mengkonsumsi suplemen yang mengandung Asam Folat
2. olah raga teratur
3.makan 4 sehat 5 sempurna
4. mengurangi garam,gula,kafein dan alkohol
5. tidur cukup, paling tidak 8 jam per hari
6.jauhin stress...
7. berhenti merokok...(waduuuh..this is the hardest part deh..huehehe...)
Oh ya, selain cara-cara diatas, mungkin ada baiknya mencoba menghilangkan gejala-gejala PMS dengan YOGA.
Kayaknya gw juga mau coba nih ngilangin gejala PMS dengan YOGA coz gerakannya gak ribet-ribet amat...
Selamat mencoba juga yaaa...
Luv this song so much...
Been running from these feelings for so long
Telling my heart I didn't need you
Pretending I was better off alone
But I know that it's just a lie
So afraid to take a chance again
So afraid of what I'd feel inside
Oh, I need to be next to you [Need to be next to you]
Oh, I, oh, I
I need to share every breath with you [share every breath with you]
Oh, I, oh, I
I need to know I can see your smile each morning
Look into your eyes each night
For the rest of my life
Here with you, near with you
Oh, I
I need to be next to you
Need to be... next to you
Right here with you is right where I belong
I'll lose my mind if I can't see you
Without you there is nothing in this life
That would make life worth living for
I can't bear the thought of you not there
I can't fight what I feel anymore
'Cause I need to be next to you [need to be next to you]
Oh, I, oh, I
I need to share every breath with you [share every breath with you]
Oh, I, oh, I
I need to know I can see your smile each morning
Look into your eyes each night
For the rest of my life
Here with you, near with you
Oh, I
I need to be next to you
I need to have your heart next to mine
For all the time
Hold you for all my life
I need to be next to you
I need to be next to you [nned to be next to you]
Oh, I, oh, I
Need to be, need to be next to you
Share every breath with you
Oh, oh, I
I need to feel you in my arms, babe [oh, I...]
In my arms, babe [oh, I...]
I need to be next to you
Oh, I, oh, I
[ Need To Be Next To You Lyrics on http://www.lyricsmania.com/ ]
Lagi demen banget nih dengerin lagunya Kotak - Masih Cinta. Gak tau kenapa, gw demen dengerinnya. Padahal sih, sejak kapan gituh gw demen lagu-lagu yang menyentuh gitu...huehehehe.
Believe in yourself and remember that
anything is possible
Believe in what makes you feel good.
Believe in what makes you happy
Believe in the dreams you've always wanted to come true,
and give them every chance to.
Life holds no promises,
as to what will come your way.
You must search for your own ideals and work towards reaching them.
Life makes no guaranteeas to what you'll have.
it just gives you time to make choices and to take chances,
and to discover whatever secrets might come your way.
If you are willing to take the opportunities you are given,
and utilize the abilities you have,
you will constantly fill your life,
with special moments and unforgettable times.
No one knows the mysteries of life or its ultimate meaning,
but for those who are willing to believe in their dreams and in themselves,
Life is a precious gift in which anything is possible.
-Dena DiIaconi
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